Trying to move on

[ClingingToHope]

Girls are off school today but both W and I had to work so our afterschool sitter watched them for the day. That let me go pick them up for lunch. That was fun. When I got back I'd missed a call from W.

The longer this has gone on the more frustrated I've gotten with W about phone calls. She calls me on her lunch or break to talk about stuff with the girls, the house or the D process that does not have to be handled at that time. When the calls are over, especially the D ones, it takes me a while to get over it.

I tell her to send me an email and she says "she may not get to it."

I'm not returning her call. I just saw the girls so obviously there's nothing pressing. I don't have to pick them up or take them anywhere.

I sent her three emails. One was about summer camps. Another was about the taxes and the third said not to call me at work unless it is something about the girls and has to be taken care of that day. Otherwise, send me an email. I check email all the time.

I'm guessing her attorney or her clubhouse lawyers at her job are telling her not to deal by email. Well, I'm not going to deal with her through the phone where she can conveniently deny things later.