How do I find myself.......and Live for ME??

[ddstartingover]

Will have to dream about the pubs, clubs and concerts.....for now......

Actually, my H checked out on the chores around the house long before the "bomb." But then I thought, being a stay-at-home-mom meant that I did EVERYTHING around the house, since he had the income, and I did-----which got me deeper into the hole of having nothing for me and being unhappy-----YES, I know where I was when this all started and the role that it played. My H was also VERY busy with work, and I worked right along side him, helping with his biz with what I could-----until he no longer needed my help.......the first job he "fired" me from.

I didn't deal with the trash before, and I had help feeding the dogs, and he helped with the mowing........but for the most part I guess I was "prepared" for my daily chores. The full time job on top of everything is a bit much..............and to think I complained BEFORE that I had too much to do!

Don't know yet about help with the cleaning.....but will see how I "end up" bill wise when all is said and done.