One of the things that I took away from my weekend at Retrouvaille is a feeling that my wife is going through a midlife crisis. She spoke of wanting to do things and go places, and seeing what life has to offer her. There were comments to the effect of "things haven't been okay for a long time" which seem at odds with the reality of the situation.
Trent,
Have you been able to confirm when she first started contacting these other men? Did these marital complaints precede the affairs, and you just missed them, or have these complaints only come up recently?
