Thanks Cagzmom!
Hi TF-the commute started today and since its a holiday for many the traffic wasn't too bad and the kids didn't need to get off to school. Tomorrow will be the real test. I'll be home in the morning long enough to wake them up and get them moving, but they'll need to walk or ride their bikes to school. Thats what has me most nervous. Schools are close enough to walk, but it still takes them a good half-hour or more to get there.

H is over at the condo having lunch with the girls. D12 is sick with sore throat/fever and didn't feel like going to get lunch to bring home-H is taking this personally. he finally asked D12 if she was mad at him and she said yes. He asked why-he didn't think he'd done anything...she said she wasn't ready to talk about it and she said H seemed mad at her then...I helped her come up with something neutral to say if he asks before she's ready again..

Its hard to hear him be so clueless as to the repercussions of his actions on our family!

He emailed me with some ideas for separating accounts..I'd already done it..not sure if he was surprised or angry..he just responded "wow, you've been busy"...

Oh well. More worried about my new commute and getting my home schedule down than I am with his reactions to everything.


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.