Awesome. Keep this stuff coming as I have course thought about the relapse/not doing it. Given that he also has to remove her from our company (the one we all work for) that give me some more confidence for some reason.

Again, keep the advice on this front coming please as I don't have a plan in place yet.

Right now he is going to therapist alone, we will resume together most likely. Again, separated for 2 years - and we separated BEFORE the affair. That tempers some of this. I mean, if we were "together together" this would have a different severity to it. Our situation was so screwed up (I know most are) but that gives me ...err...In don't know what it gives me.

Anyway, she's a whore and I would not want to be my H for a million dollars in any time in the near future.

Again, thank you in advance for affair ending confirming stuff. I can tell when he is lying and believe him when he says he does not love her. He said that is the worst part and that it makes him feel like even more of a horrible person. Oh, what a morning.

Whatever, I feel pretty confident between you gys and my best friend who happens to be a divorce Attorney I will be safe.

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