My story, what to do next.

[MarkG]

Sounds a lot like the 1st time my W left. This time there's not a lot of ppl calling her crazy for leaving, but that's mostly due to her lies she's told everyone. The truth is slowly coming out, but every day that passes I'm caring less & less about that too. I'm still waiting for my W to have a wakeup call, hope she gets it and I hope yours does too (as well as everyone's). It took me a long time to have mine so I can't expect it soon from her either. Congrats on how V-day turned out for you - it's not too common you can participate in anything on V-day involving a WAS and not only get away with it, but make them happy in the process. I had no contact with my W for V-day, it's probably best that way.