Ouch, a year time frame. Well, that could change at any time. It sounds like she is getting closer to you, but is still hesitant to make that final leap. I'd say keep doing what you are doing. She is responding well to it.

Good job on the improvement in performance on the church gig.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...