I have mentioned the same things in our conversations.

I tried to use that as an example to show how bad her behavior sounded, but she said she wouldn't have a problem with it. I would like to call shenanigans, but I don't want to have my own revenge EA just to prove a point and show her how it feels.

Maybe we need a DB chatbot to pretend to have conversations with, so we can type and text like crazy, but still be telling the truth when we say nothing is going on. (Sorry, that's the inner Geek in me coming out...)