When do you request your spouse end an EA?

[lostnotgone]

Thank you everyone. Confronted this morning. Will keep you posted. He is ending it.

Dani88,
Go with caution - my H also told me he ended it - did not. When it was completely exposed and I had found out that it had been going on for 6 months he again told me it was over (that she had her own issues she had to work out, she is married too!!). I have found out yesterday that it is not.

I hope that this is not true for you.