Just a quick note on this weekend:
W went to work Sun. morning, when the kids got up, found the valentines treats she left for them on kitchen table. Very excited!
I took kids to church and religion class. Got home @ noon, had doughnuts, as always after church, and they wanted to go eat at a restaurant. I said maybe we can surprise Mom at work and take her out to eat. They thought that was great. Older boys wanted to stop and buy Mom some flowers. We did, and went to her work and she was very surprised. Of course, said we shouldn't have bought flowers but seemed happy to have us (kids?) there. Went to eat and had a good time.
After kids went to bed and were asleep, she came over, kissed and hugged me, said thanks for the flowers and bringing the kids for lunch. I said, you're welcome, it was a nice day for the family, and told her goodnight. Really wanted more but left it at that and was "happy" about it.
Don't know if that is still pursuing, but seemed to work well.
Can't wait for my phone coaching session tonight!


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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