I love the Serenity Prayer. It has gotten me through many a dark day.

I understand exactly how you feel. I was doing the same thing as you are, convinced that my H would not even remember my name if I didn't bring it there.

And then I took myself out of my own eyes, and tried looking at it from a different perspective.

Try looking at it from someone who is not in the situation, but an outside observer...maybe your sister, best friend...

What would you tell her to do?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..