While I would do backflips to find out the pics and webcam were for me, I am enough of a realist to think they were probably for OM.
I am working on the "No More" part. As you may have seen, I put up with a lot for the last few months, thinking that as long as we were together, things would eventually get better.
When there is calm between us, we actually get along pretty well.
I guess I am still trying to dig in my heels and keep us from drifting further apart, and hold on to the calm as long as it lasts.
I can't afford to back down now, but I still feel like I am reacting instead of taking action.