I have to say that if feels as though my H has taken a tiny step back from our "reconnection" Friday night. I know this shouldn't surprise me and I just need to roll with it.
My H was supposed to come over on Saturday but he went golfing all afternoon on Saturday and said he was tired. He told me he would come over but I told him it was okay if he didn't. We talked on the phone for awhile. He did tell me he would like to move back within the month so we will see. He did spend the whole day with me yesterday however there were no Valentines since he says he hates Valentine's Day. I'm not complaining just observing...my H used to give me Valentines. I sensed he was a little more distant yesterday which is difficult for me because I want constant reassurance from him that he has no doubts about us. I was able to make it through the day without pushing...well maybe I pushed a teeny tiny little bit...I wanted that connection we made on Friday to still be there. It was but not to the same degree.
OP-I agree slow and easy...however slow and easy is necessarily easy for me!
peace-Thanks for your constant support. How are you?
snodderly- I have learned the hard lesson that I can't fix him. You are right this is the hardest part if I still have to keep my expectations at zero after everything he said to me. I don't know if I could handle it if he runs again. Looking at him as someone recovering from a serious injury could help. Thanks. I just wonder if I make things too easy for him. Should I be making him work and truly show me that things have changed before I let him back in my life?
