Ring On or Ring Off????

[ddstartingover]

I've read a bit about male depression----and I know my H has used alcohol as a crutch, and maybe OW too (but I still don't know how she fits in to all of this----if she's still in the picture----and how in the HE*# she could do what she did when her marriage ended after her H had an A). Knowing him (who he IS/WAS), I can believe that he will never be able to admit that he is depressed----and yes, over the past 2+ years, I did my best to convince him he is, that he has a PROBLEM---to no avail (Surprise??).

As you know, it's still hard to see them "appear" happy.

I haven't seen the movie......but I have had the thought about it being easier if he died......In a way, the H that I knew is dead..........and what is walking around in his body is someone I don't know, but his presence reminds me of who he was and what we had............ughhhhh......gotta move forward!!!!