How do I find myself.......and Live for ME??

[ddstartingover]

It's Monday. Waiting for a call from L's office to confirm a day/time for first visit. At work, unable to concentrate on anything else...............so, I thought I would start a new thread. I have been with my H for 30 years. We started dating when I was 14 years old. Through no fault but my own, I made my life about US, and our FAMILY, our home and OUR future. What has resulted is a 44 year old woman who does not know who SHE is.

My kids make me happy. I love doing things with and for my kids. I relied too heavily on H making me happy----another fault of mine. Now, I need to learn how to be happy with ME.

Problem is, with managing the household, my kids's busy schedules, and working full time, I have NO time. I'm looking for suggestions...........how to FIND yourself in 5 minutes a day or less??? I want this thread to be all positive, I want to focus on me (as I prepare for the big D)......don't let my H and his MLC crap creep in here, please.........