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Detaching has helped a lot. It has started to get to a point that I've stepped back so much that it's almost like watching a movie.
I am watching the same movie in a different theater.

Keep working on getting to the alt!


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Will do. Thanks!

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SA,

Read your post and I must say that for a very brief minute, well, it is a very familiar story with only one detail different. Anyway…

I am sorry that you feel he replaced you so quickly. Actually, it doesn’t usually take that long and since they had a history, it probably didn’t seem that odd to them.

But the truth is, it is quick because he was in such a bad place. And she makes him feel better at the moment. Mentally ill, as sweet as pie, doesn’t really matter. Right now, she is the “fix” for his feelings. Eventually he may realize that he feels the same way inside with her as he did with you.

Until that happens, all you can do is try your best to keep your focus off of them. Working through the anger is paramount as well.

If you can get on FB, you will find there is a wealth of information and friendships to be gained.



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
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On FB. Now trying to figure it out.

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Are you a fan of Divorce Busting?


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Yes, now what?

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give us a hint or look for Trusting Faithfully and add her as a friend. If you do that and it is not obvious by your name that you are SA, add a note.

That will start the process.



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
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FB seems to be down right now. I am having trouble with the DB site on FB. If you are a fan, I should be able to find you


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There is also a group called Divorce Busters that you can join

It only has 105 members.
Where as Divorcebusting page has 859 memebers


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OK, thanks.

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