PUP- I have given it some thought, my parents believe that and asked me not to mention anything to MIL b/c W and MIL would think I am being vindictive. W will not admit to the using- so I guess it really is her problem for now.
CUTTER- thanks for the advice, I thought that I had said my goodbyes- I have erased her name from my phone, unfortunately I do type out her number and it doesn't really slow me down enough to not communicate w/ her. I did make my list for reasons to break DIM- I broke it this weekend to establish the boundary w/ the dogs.
PUP- I'm interested to hear your thoughts about a possible intervention- even if W is not yet willing to get honest.
