H came over again last night. It was late so I was unable to leave. However, I didn't talk hardly at all, and he tried to fight with me, but I was very calm. Basically he is just trying to get info from me about the letter. I finally told him that I'm not going to sit and defend myself, that I had nothing to do with it, and if that is why he came over he can leave now.

He shut up about that, and started talking about our M. I just said that I would like to work on it, but for now as long as he was involved with this OW, I want no part of it. Of course he did the "were just friends", I just ignored him. Then he started to ask me what my plans were for us. I repeated that I was willing to work on M when he was done with her. After a few more minutes of him saying he just doesn't see how it will work, blah blah blah. I finally said, I'm going to bed, it's time for you to leave.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10