Oh God, the wedding video is brutal. Been there done that myself.

The ups and downs sure can be tough. A lot of people on here can relate including me. These has to come a point for all of us that we accept things for what they are, get some self respect, demand better for ourselves, and move onto the next phase of our lives.

Become a better man. For yourself and whoever you end up with, be it your W or the next person who hopefullytreat treat you better.

All of that is easier said than done, I know, but I think that needs to be the goal.

Good call with the dogs. You don't need to be taken advantage of.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.