Another WAW, Advise Please

[cannon]

I woke up at about 1:30 to see she was on FB. I started a chat with her. Then I walked down the hall and said "this ia the kind of action that I won't allow while you are in this home". She said she was not chatting with OM, and maybe not but she would have been if he was available.

She says I'm obssessed with OM and thinks I'm trying to control her. At that point it's the same if you want it then move out.

She tried to make it an argument and was super defensive, but I was calm and went back to bed.

She unfriended me on FB. The layers of secrecy keep getting deeper.

I had two ideas while not sleeping last night.

First, I think I can schedule the wireless router to shut down at a certain time each night. It will take her a couple days to tell me the issue then a couple more for me to fix it.

Second, I could invite her parents, my parents, and her best friend to set this issue to bed once and for all, either moving out or moving forward without OM. I see the addick thing in her on this, I'm the one trying to take away to drug or atleast make her leave to use it and that makes her feel controlled by me. The meeting would be an intervention of sorts.