SA,

Read your post and I must say that for a very brief minute, well, it is a very familiar story with only one detail different. Anyway…

I am sorry that you feel he replaced you so quickly. Actually, it doesn’t usually take that long and since they had a history, it probably didn’t seem that odd to them.

But the truth is, it is quick because he was in such a bad place. And she makes him feel better at the moment. Mentally ill, as sweet as pie, doesn’t really matter. Right now, she is the “fix” for his feelings. Eventually he may realize that he feels the same way inside with her as he did with you.

Until that happens, all you can do is try your best to keep your focus off of them. Working through the anger is paramount as well.

If you can get on FB, you will find there is a wealth of information and friendships to be gained.



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox