She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[tbart01]

Unfortunately sandi2 is right. I'm making changes for me, changes I've needed to make for a long time. i feel really good about the person I am becoming. She is still dead set on divorce, but she has finally talked to someone close. Until now she had been going at this alone. the fact that she finally spoke to someone close has made her realize she needs individual therapy, and she plans to start that before i get home. Things still look grim, but at least she's finally realizing something isn't right with her, and she needs to get help. i promise you this situation doesn't warrant a divorce, but in her mind it does. In the mean time, all I can do is continue to work on me, and be strong for my children. Right now the older daughter is playing both of us, and that's really hard for me being so far away. Any time they argue, my wife sees me and blames it on me.