Thanks GH31. I did actually asked the women I talked to why they thought it was a bad idea. They were all familiar with my financial situation though. Here's kind of a summary of the responses I got:

- expect to act like a roomate and pay atleast half of all of the bills and rent if you move back if she doesn't want you there. (its a stretch for me to pay for the room/apt I'm renting now)

- if she doesn't want you there she will move out then how are you going to afford to live there if she quits paying rent, and if you can't pay the rent there where do you plan on living?

- do you really want to be somewhere that you are not wanted and can you prevent the fallout from distracting your school/study?

I talked to my Mom today about this and she said, "before you move back you should call around and find a lawyer that will accept self respect instead of a check." -haha!

Despite all of this I still like the idea.


Me-32
W-29
No kids
ILYBNILWY 11.20.09
Separated 01.10.10
Discovered EA 01.13.10
W admitted to PA 02.21.10
I filed for D 03.09.10