Well, I guess I survived V-day. It really helped that a family that we're close to spent the afternoon with me and the kids. We went for a long nature walk ending on a beach where the Chinese New Year's tiger had hidden lucky (chocolate coins) on the beach for the kids (I hatched a lot of fun things for the kids today). My IC warned me against being isolated. This afternoon was an example of doing something that brought me out of my own problems, connected me with other people, and woke me up to beauty and enjoying the now.

Must say that H is doing a great job GAL based on his fb page. I wish he had been taking care of himself like that while we were still together...maybe he wouldn't have felt so desperate to escape me. I encouraged him to, but it fell on deaf ears. Of course, I don't know if he's GALing with an OW...


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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