H wants to talk tomorrow! Please advise.

[mishka422]

HC,

I am truly sorry for what you are going through right now. Just know that we know what you are feeling and the pain and anguish of it all and we are here to listen. Rant, cry, ask questions, be open. Honestly I am much more open with everyone on this board than I can be with most people in my RL. Everyone here is very supportive and want to help whenever possible. Now, I'll tell you, sometimes that help comes in the form of a 2x4 when needed.

As everyone else has said, take time for yourself and your children now and disregard your H. He is taking up far too much headspace and you need that to deal with your own emotions.

Your D is understandably upset. Please make sure to comfort her as much as you can but reassure her that her dad loves her and is always going to be there for her (as long as you feel that is true).

We are all here for you, praying over you and hoping for healing of your heart.

((((((HUGS)))))))