I’m never going to settle for not-quite-right again. We don’t have to. That’s the miracle of accepting we have choices – the choice to get it right or keep doing what we’ve been doing.
Yeah, well, it might be different if we didn't have kids. I like living with them, period. End of sentence. It's that simple.
But I'm not also not going to go without sex.
Which is why my life is a bit complicated.
People on this forum have said my marriage is a sham. Like you say, I'm not really worried what OTHER people think my marriage is.