Journaling... V-day just about over now. First one without a guy in many, many years but I focused on my kids and myself. Took a gift over to my mom, her first Valentines without her sweetheart in 57+ years. But her attitude is positive and she said she didn't spend time dragging out old memories that would just bring her down. Instead she stayed busy, sticking with her routines and she is doing very well. I aspire to be more like her - optimistic, compassionate, thoughtful. No anger, bitterness or regret. She's a wonderful role model. It's not about our losses... it's about counting our blessings, remembering the good times, letting go of the bad and simply looking forward with hope and confidence in a bright future.
