Yup.. you are doing everything to push this to an end... Not to worry...

You don't NEED to be strong with a good intermediary to talk to him on your behalf...we all pretty much are reccomending you to NOT TALK to him.. at ALL.. until she's GONE. smile

For YOUR healthy and his and your children's, do NOT expose yourself to this affair when you have a safety zone and an intermediary ... they will keep you from having to do all of this hard work