HDWife trying for happier life

[HDwife]

ssmguy - I've scanned a handful of your posts, and it seems as though you are a horny, but still fairly conservative romantic like me. I think the reason you won't divorce your wife is because you hope to win her over and you really like the pursui, and that she hasn't given in to you keeps her sexually intriguing to you?

I wonder, just wonder, how happy you or I would really be if we did get %ucked to sleep each night by our mates? Maybe we would actually not be so HD. Maybe it's the futile pursuit that drives us? That somehow we are using our interest in coupling to mask our insecurities in connecting more deeply on other levels? just thinking out loud...