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[awest1217]

Today was ok. Nothing big. Just a good time relaxing. He bought me a new digital camera which is great because mine has been broken for quite a while. It was a little bit of a rough start because when H got there, S had a poop accident in his underwear and then tried to wipe and got it everywhere. AAAHHHH! I was a little frustrated because potty training is as hard on the parents as the child, and doing it myself is hard. When H is here, he does take him once in a while, but it is mostly me.

I gave H his card and he cried. He then asked me about what I wanted to eat. I need to definitely explain to H that there are three days each year he should plan what to eat for dinner and not ask me what I want; my birthday, our anniversary, and valentine's day. A normal girl thing... It was all nice and H text me after he left to let me know that he has enjoyed relaxing and feeling loved.

I talked more about him moving home (generally), but he still hasn't said it is definite. Still kind of aloof. We will have to wait and see what next week holds. It will be hard to bring it up, but I will have to. We are both grown adults and there is a wonderful, although frustrating right now, two year old who needs me to protect our house. I just don't like being in this role, but I will do what I need to I guess.

Overall a good Valentine's day.