About the dating, one word of warning and did learn from DB is make sure you take some time to work on you, like Gardener said, because otherwise you will repeat and be here all over again with someone else. Also if this woman is on her 2nd divorce, shouldn't that raise red flags that you could be the third. Not saying you want anything long term with her, but why even start something with a woman probably needs some time to work on herself too.
Give it some time. Give yourself some time to grieve. This is a loss. GAL, but you will need time to grieve a loss. Take that time and take some time like Gardener said to learn who you are and what you want.
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