Hi trusting....and Cagz...I dont post a thread but have been on the board for years and your timelines are both close to mine...bomb 2005....ow and torment...2007 files for divorce oct 2008 final..this weekend marries the OW ..the same one...a long plan....to try and look like there was no one else to enough time after the D...oh well fought the good fight....so sad....so hard to understand what the ow has when it seems they left so much..we did have a tradgey with our oldest son though so I know that is huge trigger for going off the deep end.....the remarriage is a hard one....so unbelievable
