I totally blew it today. Too much anger and hurt came out. I just need to move on without him. I understand what you have all been posting now. I am GAL. I think my feelings will be ruled by anger but at least it's better than pathetic trash my husband threw away.

Thank you all for being here for a stranger. You are all very wise and I feel bad that you have all felt like I did today at one time or another.

D12 came in and said..."I hate him" I don't know what to do to help her but this will affect her with men later in life and that breaks my heart all over again.

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.