It is hard for me to believe that her being upset with me for moving back will be short lived and as a result push us faster into a divorce.

I have talked to a couple of women about doing this to get their point of view. None of them thought it was a good idea - even if my only goal was to gain back respect.

But move back in - I get it - especially since my self respect hinges on it. I am working on a plan to do this and I am also reading DR now.

If any women from this board read this I would appreciate their thoughts/opinions.


Me-32
W-29
No kids
ILYBNILWY 11.20.09
Separated 01.10.10
Discovered EA 01.13.10
W admitted to PA 02.21.10
I filed for D 03.09.10