One more thing I forgot to mention. Me and some of my family are going to a casino this coming up Saturday and staying the night, this is for my birthday. My H was going to come too as of Thursday. However, with all the stuff that has happened since yesterday I'm not sure if he is still planning on going. I don't plan on asking him either way. But what should I do if he asks if I still want him to go?


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10