Not saying that I did not think about contacting him everyday - heck sometimes every minute. But the not hearing the "I love you" that we exchanged everytime we hung up the phone or left to go somewhere is just to hard NOT to hear right now.
When I felt I had to contact him I would jump on here - read some of the post about detaching - why to detach - who the detaching is really for and it worked. I am also very lucky to have a sister that just listens and tells me I can do anything I want to do and supports all my decisions without making judgement. I call her A LOT!! wish she was closer.
Hang in there - when you get to day 2 and you get the need to contact - go shopping - read - do something and force yourself not to contact. I am still waiting for it to get easier.
LNG Me - 37 H - 42 S - 19 D - 16 D - 14 M - 20 years S - 1/11/2010 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1
