Allen A,
Thank you so much for all the great advice. I do have a safety zone.

He wanted to start texting each other nice things every day, and we were for a about 2 weeks. What should I do if this week he texts me "Have a good day", should I respond?

Also, on his nights/weekends with the kids he does text me to ask where I am or where I am going. Should I not reply to these?


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10