I know what you mean about the Big Stuff.

I know that we'll never be a whole Family again.
I'm sad that my family have lost someone who they loved as their own daughter and that I've lost a family who I loved as my own.

I'm sad about what will happen to the house that W and I hand build together and that my kids may never have a place they can really call Home.

But those are things I can't do much about, so my focus is on rebuilding my life for me and taking charge of the things that I can control.

The great people here have helped me to see that it's not the end of the world even though it seems like it for such a long time.

Life does go on and it will get better I promise.

Take Care & look after yourself T


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010