mb28 I am the same way - I believed every word my H said about being done. BUT I went dark for 5 days - have not seen him now in 7 days and the conversions are getting much better and we have not spoke of D in 2 weeks. But I will not have a R talk for a while. I know that it is not healthy for either one of us right now.
Keep the conversions about the kids - right there with ya. Hardest thing I have ever done.
LNG Me - 37 H - 42 S - 19 D - 16 D - 14 M - 20 years S - 1/11/2010 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1