I moved out before I knew about the EA/OM. Had I of know about him I would have never moved out. I realize my moving out was pandering to her, but at the time I didn't know it would not help the situation.
Wayward, adulterous wives are extremely scheming, conniving, manipulative and calculating - both with OM and even more so with their betrayed husbands.
Your wife's behaviour is absolutely textbook, following the affair script to the letter.
Now, Q9 - move back into your own home. She's only being "nice" to you because you yourself are behaving "as per her calculations". She will go ballistic when you move home but it will be very short lived. This will be followed by her respecting you, even though she hates it that she respects you - did last bit make sense?
As Puppy says, have a plan before you do it (that's not an excuse to delay doing it) then execute it.
Good luck mate.
GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
