I'm in a NON-DB'ing mode right now... not pursuing H to fulfill his need to chitchat, but not feigning disinterest either if he approaches me for convo... And, if he's not being snarky, he gets rewarded w/some compliments to him, and to others in front of him.
isn't that really DBing?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
