Db not working, MLC spouse pushing D

[foreverhesaid]

Thanks so much, Snodderly. I have read many of your words of wisdom in the past - they really do help. You are completely correct, the Db-ing should be for me, I guess I lost sight of that in my panic. I do like myself much better now - I'm such a great catch and it just bothers me that my H can't see it!!!

I was thinking along the same lines, asking my H to get his own credit card (I don't think he has one, but it could be one of the things he's lied about). Then only using 'our' card for household expenses. Maybe that would give him a smack of reality.

Thanks for your support.