It's so hard because I know I have to detach. But I end up letting my impulses/emotions take over. I'm usually a very anxious person, so I think that is why I have such a hard time controlling my impulses to engage him.

When he tells me he is done, and wants out and that we'll never get past this. I believe every word he says, and become devastated and desperate.

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10