Hope the financial talk with your H did some sinking in.
I haven't had to deal with that yet and hopefully won't, but my H's work place has slowed down and he has whined about money being tighter. H said you'll still be getting XX in C/S, but I only have XX left for me. So hard to hold my tongue!! I would like to tell him that maybe he shouldn't be at the home improvement store buying flooring and molding for ow's house. I zip my lip and say nothing.
I need some advice. I'm confused as to what approach to take with H. One school of thought is NC, the other is to be friendly, PMA, upbeat when I see him. He rarely contacts me unless it's financial or kid related and there isn't really any reason for him to as he has ow to fullfill his emotional needs.