Another WAW, Advise Please

[cannon]

we are scheduled to have a finances discussion this evening. not sure how that is going to go.

was talking with my sister on the phone and noticed that W was listening in on our conversation. that led into a long conversation about our sitch. she started it and i remained very calm and confident.

she said that my pulling back is me being mean, not helping her, not conversing with her, etc.

i found the opportunity to ask if she has discontinued all communication with OM like she said. she said "i can't tell you that" to which i responded,"then obviously you are, how can i make this more clear that if you want to communicate with him you need to be out of this home, this family that we built." she says that as soon as the finances and other logistics are together then she will. she says that i'll change my tune as soon as i find another woman.

she says that i deserve a woman who will cherish me and want to consume me, that i deserve that and i will find one very quickly when i start looking. she basically stated that she can not see past the troubles that we have had in the past. she says that i'm a great guy, and very handsome, but she sees a weak man that can't take care of her and that is all she can see.