Hello Susan, I am so sorry that you are here. Have you let your husband know that you are aware of all these past affairs? My D does know about the first affair, my husband's doing. My son does not know about either affair. I know how upset I was with an OW, I can not imagine the pain of knowing it was another man. I think maybe your husband has gotten away with this behavior for so long that it has become his way of life. He could have the safety of your home and family and still run around and have his fantasy life also.
You are a better woman than me because I would have went on a rampage when I found out about the long history. Do you have the finances to take care of you and your children? Does your H live alone? When the children are with him,does he bring OW around?
M:38 H:42 T:20 M:19 D:18 S:17 MLC: Sometime in 2007 OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07 OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009 Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009 D final: 07/09/11