Within the last week or 2 she has been given more priveleges, and is trying to prove to me she is getting the kids and my last "mistake" ruined any chance I had.
That certainly sounds familar.
Originally Posted By: MarkG
How this applies to you: your W will paint a perfect picture of their R so she can defend her actions - not to you, but herself even more than you. She is unsure of what she's doing but doesn't want anyone to know. This will help her keep up her lie to herself.
Speaking of not wanting anyone to know...when the ex made the threat of murdering me she was over at her grandmothers house with D3 and when she was on the phone, instead of referring to OM, she just said "that thing we talked about earlier". She doesnt want her grandmother, or anyone else in her family to know about this R.
Probably her grandmother especially, since she is supposedly leaving my ex a large sum of money when she dies and she probably figures she will change her will or osmething if she finds out what my ex has done and with who. But that's just speculation at this point.
My ex came to get D3 this morning and instead of me having the door unlocked so she could just walk right in like she has been doing it was closed and locked. My ex said "Are you seriously going to let me stand out here in the cold?" (which was all of ~5 seconds) I got D3's coat on, told her bye, politely opened the door, let D3 walk out, and politely closed it.
Then I went and had breakfast, went to Toys R Us and bought D3 a foam baseball and glove and a tee and foam bat, then I went to the mall and walked around before I came back home.
and again I appreciate you guys words of support and optimism, but I've about had it with all this drama...and my ex is way too angry and holds grudges way too long for me to believe that this will all blow over. every new thing that had happend in the past month has been something else she's added to the list of things she cant forgive me for...and probably the list of things she'll try to use against me in a custody battle. when all this started she had no real ammo...then she pushed my buttons and flip flopped on me so many times that I reacted on my emotions.
by having her blocked from calling or texting, I think I'm limiting that possibility in the future...which makes me happy in a way.
