You were your own person before you met H, before you had kids. What did that MF like to do?
Go out, drink and dance?
LoL - Wow... that was 100 years ago. I didn't really do anything "grown up"!!!
Newmama:
Originally Posted By: newmama
Hey, you can be a mom and a milf (SORRY TO BE CRASS!!!;-) )
LoL D18's friends used to hang here 24x7, always telling the BFF and I they liked to hang near the MILF's. I know, they were mostly just being cute, but, hey, who doesn't get a kick in their step from that? And, we ARE worthy, RIGHTRIGHTRIGHT? Actually, we're just younger than most of the other Mom's of kids there age... My S10's friends parents - hmmmm - I might have babysat them!
Originally Posted By: newmama
And how do you have a "grown up" conversation with your 18 yo? LOL
Thank you for the reminder. Should have read that PRIOR to having the convo!! Actually, now, not that D18 isn't worthy of the suspicion, but I had to talk to she and her roommates about a "scent" I smelled when I dropped off something to her the other day... I thought it was D18 and friends that were at her apt, and it ended up being the roommate and friends. I excuse my way in, not particularly welcomed, and see the "group" -- the roommate wasn't the one partaking, but her boyfriend and his friend were... Looked at me in shock, and that stupid stoned look. I asked them to leave, as it's my D18's apt and her name on the lease... They didn't move quick enough, so I escorted the first one to the door by his ear. Soooo, I guess it was good for them all to hear!!! "Ouch! Sh*t! You used to be so NICE! Stop that!" LoL Dude, I've dealt w/better stoneheads than you, back in the day. Do it somewhere else!
Like the idea of the parks and rec thing!!! I'll grab the book.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I'm in a NON-DB'ing mode right now... not pursuing H to fulfill his need to chitchat, but not feigning disinterest either if he approaches me for convo... And, if he's not being snarky, he gets rewarded w/some compliments to him, and to others in front of him.
I had a big 180 yesterday... We took the boys to the Y after S10's bball game... They wanted to play more bball. H plays w/them all the time, and, if I go w/I usually walk. Well, this time, I played!! I have to tell you, I think they were amazed at my skill! NOT!! LoL But, I didnt embarrass anyone! And, S12 (ALMOST S13) got asked to play w/some high schoolers, so H played w/S10 and then I walked, circling them while they were playing. Then H played in w/S12 and the high schoolers. I can't believe he can still hang w/them!
Last night I made dinner and we all watched the Michael Jackson move w/a fire going in our pub. I fell asleep through some of it, but we all enjoyed it.
I gave H a V-Day present yesterday, but don't worry, it's not TOO personal... non-threatening... I got him a sweatshirt from the boys soccer club, with our last name on the back. (He always likes to wear our school or club gear to games.) And, I got him some gym clothes, as all of his have disappeared (they were ugly, and I MADE them disappear one by one! LoL). He loved them, and said, "You know, it's time..." Ughhh Yea!
Today they are bowling w/my family and the boys have sports activities and S12 is going to a move with friends. I'm hanging at home, trying to make a Playlist on Itunes of a bunch of podcasts to listen to when I walk (not w/my friends), and getting much needed organization done.
I HAVE to come out of this mini-depression I've been in. It helps today, as the sun is out, weather is mild, etc... I'm going to go tanning this week again. I think I get a real seasonal disorder during this time of year.
HAPPY V-DAY to all of my friends!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Hey, Newmama - This d/ling of the podcasts on itunes is a bit like perusing the community activities... helping me remember what I like! Duh! I'll give you all a list of some I am subscribing to...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Mindfull, glad you weren't offended by my joke! And will Mr. Mind be giving you a gift of some kind? Or someone will have to go over there and kick some a$$!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
The Biggest Loser Fan Podcast Daily Dish The Dave Ramsey Show The "Dear Venus" Show Inside Out Weight Loss The Parent Experiment Couch to 5k The Parent Experiment Savage Love Podcast 3 Wine Guys You're Effing Awesome
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
They didn't move quick enough, so I escorted the first one to the door by his ear. Soooo, I guess it was good for them all to hear!!! "Ouch! Sh*t! You used to be so NICE! Stop that!" LoL Dude, I've dealt w/better stoneheads than you, back in the day. Do it somewhere else!
LMAO!!!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
I'm in a NON-DB'ing mode right now... not pursuing H to fulfill his need to chitchat, but not feigning disinterest either if he approaches me for convo... And, if he's not being snarky, he gets rewarded w/some compliments to him, and to others in front of him.
isn't that really DBing?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
