H came over last night about 11:30. I told him I didn’t want to talk right now. He trapped me into a fight. Saying we were doing good, but that every weekend there is some type of drama and he can’t handle it anymore. I told him that this was his drama not mine, and he had no right to put this one on me.
He acted very different from the “I’m sorry” texts, now it was as if he was blaming me all over again. I just said I couldn’t do this anymore, and that I needed commitment from him or he needed to end it. He replied with telling me he knows that I’m done, and he doesn’t understand why I’m holding on. I told him my goal was to save our M. He said that he didn’t see how we could ever come back from this.
I’m so mad that he came over and trapped me into a fight. In addition, what’s with the “I’m sorry” texts and the blaming me again when he gets here? The conversation didn’t last long, and I didn’t say much, then finally I said he needed to leave I was going to bed.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
