Heavens buddy! I don't know. I've been out of the dating pool for over 20 years so I'm much more out of practice! smile

IMO, sending her a friend request on FB with a simple note that it was great to meet her would probably be a good start. It's not too forward, it allows time to build things in a non-threatening manner. Everyone has a FB page and it's common to search for people we meet in RL there to build connections and bolster our friend list. smile

Question though.....why are you in such a gosh awful rush to date? You are going through one of the most difficult periods of your life right now. Is that really the best time to build a possible emotional attachment to someone else who could end up hurt in the crossfire of the battle of the D?

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!